Honest is good manners.People don't like person that who is cheater and liar.Person that have personality like this,no body to be his or her friends.BUT,maybe we can't always be honest in all our matters right???Sometimes,we will make an excuses to escape from some events or activities on our own reasons..So this is the title,,IS IT POSSIBLE TO BE 100% HONEST IN RELATIONSHIP???
OUR PARENTS(PAPA AND MAMA)..
did you love your parent???we all love our parent..did you ever lies to them since you was born??maybe you had did it right..but,i didn't means to lie to them in all matters..lie is sin..sin send us to hell..NAUZUBILLAHI MIN ZHALIK..for me,,we have to be 100% honest with them because they had growth us,give the best ever they can do for us..make sure that we all rises in good and best..no need to us to lie to them..we must tell them the truth of the problem that trouble in our self..how about after we got married??we have to facing many problem..are need to us to tell them our problem??it's not fault..maybe some problems that we can share and not right??it's up to you how strong are you to facing the problem..So,it is compulsory to us to be honest with them,,rules by syarak..
OUR BEST FRIEND FOREVER(BFF)
forever??friend is our companion.we will be with them all time..hangout together..sometimes we are also have our own commitment..are need to us to lie to them if we can't follow them?this relationship must have high understanding to each other..once happen misunderstanding with our friends,maybe did not speak for a days..it's difficult.so,if we can't join them,tell the truth..friends are also need to understand it and not to be forced..maybe at another time..don't fells sad if our friends refuses to follow us..maybe we can follow them at TWITTER right??no need to quarrel in a small matter..take it easy okey??it can be possible to be 100% in relationship if we have the high understanding to each other..
OUR COUPLE(LOVER)
I think that this is the very very challenging and adventuring relationship..Why??because this relationship combines all aspect of feelings..loving,jealousy,desperate,happy and others..many people believe that to be honest in this relationship is the root to get the happiness..how about we lie to our lover??they don't know right??but,we must have high respected to our lover..they are human beings that have a feeling and hearts..sometimes we can't follow all what them want..shopping,dinner,watch movies..if we can't fulfill it,tell the truth.but sometimes we have to,,because we want to keep in the track the relationship..deep in our heart,we don't want to do it..just to make the situations under control...nowadays,many people know that as long as the relationship does not get to marriage,they don't want to trust it 100%..NOT CONFIRM YET!!the words that often people say..so,if you want to be honest 100% to your lover,,married first and then love after marriage..that's the way,,
CONCLUSION
for my opinion,nothing impossible in this life..we must struggle to get it..WHERE THERE'S A WILL,THERE'S A WAY...

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